Poz on Poz. Birthday Cock…

Here I sit at a coffee shop on a grey day awaiting my daily dose of coffee. The PozPig is with me today. It is his birthday weekend. I have taken 4.5 days off to be with him. We have both worked so hard this last year we have not had many opportunities to connect.

I have mixed feelings about these 4 days ahead of us. Wondering what they will bring and if I will be disappointed when it is all said and done. I want to be a pig and fuck all weekend.  I want to whore his ass out and see him fill his boy hole with as many loads as he can take.

We had some hot one sided oral sex the two nights ago. Quick simple, cock sucking, ball sucking and ass eating as he spewed his toxic load all over my chest. I had no opportunity to blow as it was sort of in the cards that it was all about him. We had not had sex together in well over 3 weeks and he has been in a slump so to speak.

He has had sex, we have not. It has become a bit intolerable and bothersome that he has been fucking other dudes as I sit in the closet and beat off watching as he has his fill.

He has had many guys this summer come over to the loft. Some Bareback, Some with condoms, some just oral. Some were Poz dudes, some said they were neg and I am sure perhaps some never knew their status.

He has had some remarkable men and boys. Some were smooth fit muscle studs that just wanted a hole to fill. One man was a hot, shaved head, muscle mature man, mid forties, with a hung man meat. He was POZ. My boyfriend has always wanted to hookup with him but nothing ever came of it. We never knew he was poz before the night he first came over.

Over the last few years prior to his HIV infection we had been on a few sites, manhunt, squirt, grindr, etc…We have seen this dude on the sites. HE tried to message him and wink at him but to no success. Boyfriend always felt he was out of his league. It was within the last year the boyfriend said that this dude was on his wishlist. A fantasy. He is handsome. Scruff, manly. Beautiful face.

I was on squirt.org on my bf’s account and this guy messaged. He wanted to fuck. So i kept the conversation going. I got a picture off of him and realized it was the same pic that I had seen on BBRT and that guy was poz. So I yelled across the loft for Bf to come to me and look at my discovery.

It is interesting that after all these years that as it turns out his fantasy fuck is Poz and now more than ever on the to do list and a real possibility to take raw man cock again. Maybe this is why this dude has never given boyfriend the attention he wanted because he knew he was poz and never really felt it a possibility that he could fuck a negative boy. After a conversation and self disclosure and asking him a couple of times to reassure him if he was good to fuck raw he said he would come over.

The boyfriend was in shock. He could not believe after all this time he was going to fuck a man he has always wanted to service. He got in the bathroom, douched, bathed, trimmed and waited! I quiver just writing about it.

Within 90mins he was over to the loft and balls deep in boyfriend, making him a dirty little cum slut. HE rammed, plowed, and tortured the boyfriends hole. I have never ever heard him cry for mercy as he took hung cock. This man seemed to be given the forbidden fruit. How many men has this Poz dude been with, has he too lived a sheltered sex life because many men won’t fuck a Poz dude in our tiny homophobic, aids ignorant society we live in. He acted like he hasn’t BB a willing hole in a long time.

My boyfriend loved it. He sucked, he worshipped, he was put into every position I could imagine by this Poz man. He wanted his hole. I was watching silently beating off in the closet across from the bed unknowingly witnessing true pig fucking. When the man wasn’t fucking him the boyfriend cleaned off the freshly ass juiced man meat and re lubed it with his spit  polishing it off and then bending over and taking it again.

The room smelled like stench. Pure man on man stench. Poppers lingered in the air, ass juice flowing, spit everywhere, ass juice all over the fuck blanket. Lube all over their bodies. The Poz dude pulled the bf’s body in any direction he wanted. He was rough on him. One position he turned him into a pretzel and heaved his shaft down his shit chute. He started to moan, scream and moaned” I’m cumin” he unloaded in his hole and kept pumping his dirty seed down his hole. The boyfriend was shivering and glistening with a well deserved sweat. The collapsed onto the bed and made small chat.

To cut to the chase, the Poz Man who is the quentential gay man. Handsome, fit, bald shaved head, beard. He sort of looked like the porn star, ” Drew Sebastian” He is fucking hot. Needless to say, this local Porn Star came over 2 more times. They have been chatting a bit on text messaging.

I am a bit jealous. He is everything I am not. He gives the boyfriend I am unable to give him. Over and over again. Even though the Poz man disclosed to the bf the bf has yet to disclose to him his status. I am unsure if he ever will.

I do get something from it as well. I fulfill my inner whore voyeuristic eye. But the side effects are ye to be determined.

The boyfriend is now in a slump. Not in the mood. Not wanting to hookup with other guys nor me.  I am unsure of his intentions or reasoning for it. It has happened before pre and post hiv.

Nothing to worry about I tell myself. But I am an anxious person anyway so who knows.

As much as I want to who him out if he is not willing it is a fruitless cause.

My fantasy is for me to stay online all day and invite guys over and walk into the bedroom and find him on all fours, seed him, have him suck them and leave..Then once the sun sets take him to the bathhouse and have him take as many cocks as he can take in the dark room. All for the sake of cock.  All for my selfish reasons.

With all this being said. What is it about me? Why is it at times when I want him to take a strangers cock and load I get all worked up with anticipation. However when it is early in the day and I jerk off to porn on different sites or even to the boyfriends homemade video of the Poz dude breeding him once I blow I feel guilt and don’t want him to be with anyone else and feel satisfied. Yet a few hours later I am wanting it again.

I want the boyfriend to feel special and remember the birthday we spent together but would it be tainted if he took another mans load other than mine?

This morning when we woke up he was in the bathroom for some time as I was adjusting to the morning light coming through the curtains. Awaiting his return to I could take my turn in the washroom, refreshing my mouth and wash my cock. The boyfriend returned and then I had my turn.

We kissed, we fondled, I went for his ass as he whispered,” careful it may be dirty.” I replied,” I thought you washed it” He said, “I did but be careful”

So I went for it. He had a faint faint smell of a shit but he was clean. I made him moan as i ate his ass and taint. It was refreshing to make a man moan. My man. I felt comfortable and secure. I then crawled up onto all fours and rubbed my shaft against his hole with random pokes. My head pressing against his spit lathered quivering hole. He was intense in his moans and grunts. His inner slut bottom wanted it. He forgot his status and didn’t care my knob was poking him. My juicy knob every few thrusts penetrated his hole. He made no excuse and accepted my cock. I wanted to breed him. I wanted him to take my load. Other negative men have fucked him, knowingly full well his status and others not. He has accepted others cocks but he has never wanted me to breed him. What was I to do.

I stopped and got up beside him laying side by side and cocks pressed against each other. I then instructed him to clean my cock off. I muttered,” I like dirty ass and you like dirty cock so clean it off” It was a figure of speech. MY cock had no shit on it. Just ass juice.

We cuddled a bit and then we got out of bed. No load. No orgasm. Just left it at that.

I sort of used him to excite him. I wanted his hole to want more. I planted the seed that he could take big cock today. TO fill his hole. TO want seed. TO take raw cock. POZ cock.  I told him ,” it is your birthday weekend, you deserve what your hole desires!”

 

Poz’itivity Down the Hatch…

The other day I was at work and I was getting very horny. I started to think how much cock my poz boyfriend has been getting and was thinking,” if they can suck his cock, why can’t i?”

So I texted my boyfriend and said, get home as soon as you can and I will be home by 5:20pm. I got home before him and stripped down and climbed into bed with a ragging hard on.

I tried to pretend I was sleeping when he found me in bed and I listened as he stripped off. He climbed into bed and started to kiss my neck and rub his hard cock into my crotch. I turned around and got close enough that our cocks were rubbing and grinding as we made out.

I asked if I could suck his cock and then threw the covers down and asked him to take an active role. He got up on his knees and told me,” suck my dick!” He was very assertive and began to fuck my  throat with vigour and passion.

HE fucked my mouth any way he wanted. He was verbal, moaned and sighed as I swallowed his thick cock.

I started to taste and feel the precum oozing out of his cock and lingering around his foreskin. It began to create a bit of anxiety for me and I paused and told him I could taste it and then he came down to kiss me and take it from my mouth.

He then stuck his thumb down my throat and opened my mouth more. He feed me his shaft and told me to keep sucking.

I sucked and sucked his meat until his hips were pumping my forehead. I had to brace myself with a pillow. HE then too a breather and asked if we wanted to jerk off. He knew I didn’t want him to blow in my mouth so it was a natural ending.

We laid back, grabbed our cocks and beat them ferociously until he blew first then He leaned over and started to moan and whisper in my ear and I blew all over me and his side.

He went to clean up and I shortly joined him in the washroom. I said I was a bit anxious about having that much precum in my mouth. I shared with him my thoughts. I said I understood the science and all but it was still so new to us and me. I said I wasn’t expecting anything from him but an open ear and mind.

I think. If he can have  a guy come over, who knows his status, still fucks him bareback and is fine with it because he said he knew the risks….Then why can’t I just take a little cock down my throat.

 

Sunny Disposition ….I smile for cum!

Here I am. Can you see me? Can you hear me? No, that is good. I want to be anonymous.  So many men, boys and ladyboys want to know who you are when you are on social media like Grindr, Manhunt, Squirt. ” Do you got a pic, brah?” it drives me crazy.  Maybe I am a creature of habit, maybe I am too old for this hook up game. Maybe I am not getting it. I like the days when you could hide in a stall and tap your foot or look for the other dudes shadow going back and forth to know if he is cruising. I like the days where you can hide in the shadows of a park and wait for some man to walk by and tug at his crotch. It did not matter what you looked like for the most part. It was dark, you had your cock out and you were ready and willing to anyone who was ready to get you off.

Now everything has to meet a preconceived checklist. The newest app on the market is in the underground until more and more socially retarded single faggots join and then change the dynamic. Anonymous fucking is dead. You need to see what he looks like, his stats, his into, his time frames, what social circle he may run in to ensure you may be compatible. What is there to be compatible about. It’s just sex. If it isn’t just sex, one of the two are being dishonest with themselves.

So where does this leave me. I am in the cruising market. I am ready to blow a load. I am scared, I am nervous, I am anxious and horny as fuck.

I have made a few connections. I have had my blood work done since, I have told my partner that I have played. I have had some anonymous hookups, I had been to the bathhouse, I have been to the public washroom, I have had someone over at the house.

So where does this leave me. Guilt, shame and wanting more. I have had a really bad cold, I have had a herpes breakout, aka a cold sore, since I was 16yrs old. It is a badge of shame for sure but I kept up with it and put it back in its place.

I have been fortunate enough that my partner has been honest and shared his willingness to jump back into the hookup game. He has been with 4 different guys and one of them 2x.

I joined in on 3 of them where as the others I hid in the closet watching through the closet door crack. It was amazing. I also had the voyeuristic eye to watch him breed a dude who is also undetectable(even though he never said he was nor does he know bf is).

It is hot as hell to watch my boyfriend top. It is equally hot to watch him service hot hung daddies. I also like watching him take a load of cum to the face.

Boyfriend has had one guy breed him and he took his load deep in his ass. This guy knew he was undetectable but made the choice to top him anyway. It was soon hot. The daddy top ever knew I was watching from the closet. I did join in the second time they hooked up.

My boyfriend was in a service mood for sure.

My boyfriend and I took a boy home from Grindr. We met up with him at a local pub and fed him a couple drinks then took him back to the house. This boy claims he is on prep and wants seed. He is a cum hungry pig slut bottom. I hooked up with him once before and knew he was the boy I wanted my boyfriend to be breeding buddies with. So I introduced them and we all slept in the same bed.

However the boy was too drunk to play. Passing in and out of consciousness. He was a bit of a headache actually. I woke up in the middle of the night pretending to sleep as I was listening and watching with one eye my boyfriend trying to breed this slut. But the slut kept on pushing him off saying he was too tired.

Morning came and he and the boyfriend had some hot oral before boyfriend took off to work and then I bred this boys ass twice. Dumping my load hoping he would keep my load in their for the day so Bf could  use it as lube later. That never happened.

There is nothing better than having a slut beg for your seed. Begging for it.

So….This threesome boyfriend and I had with the man who knew bfs status. This guy did not know we were boyfriends but just friends, I pretended I was from out of town.

This guy the first time they hooked up lasted all of 2mins inside his ass before he seeded him. So I figured it would be a quick hookup. I was able to eat this daddies ass and breed him before he took a turn on the boyfriend. I came too quickly of course watching boyfriend sucking his hung cock at the same time put me over the edge.

I then took a back seat and watched boyfriend and him fool around. This guy was into kink, he wanted me to eat my seed out of his ass. He wanted to use a sounding tube on his cock, he put on a oxballs cockring on his cock and used some sort of warming cream on his balls as I finger fucked him and boyfriend sucked his cock with the sounding tube down his shaft. It was a hot time. Was a little longer than I anticipated. But fun…

He asked to stick around and have a glass of wine to chat. So we chatted. Making up lies as we went along to make it seem we were just friends. He had said in a Manhunt chat that he wasn’t into group sex with couples so….

Another guy that the boyfriend fucked around with as I watched from the closet was an amazing daddy, fit, muscles, friendly, handsome and hung as fuck, he stayed so fucking hard his veins were popping the entire time they were fooling around.

One thing I have noticed with hung daddies especially those who lie their age is they want more romance than just fucking around.  He was all into kissing and taking his time. There was one moment where boyfriend was straddling his chest and fucking his mouth that the daddy shifted him down to his crotch and started to play with boyfriends hole with his raw precummy cock. He poked his knob around his hole wanting to breed him. He was determined to get it in. I was very very anxious and scared that he was going to breed him without knowing boyfriend was undetectable. Boyfriend had condoms ready but the dude never reached for one. Boyfriend rode his rod against his crotch teasing him, watching the precum drip down his shaft before bf crawled off and said,” not tonight”.

Sighs…I am hard as a rock sitting here in the coffee shop reliving this moment. They keep chatting and trying to arrange a second hookup. Boyfriend really wants too but is also hesitant because this daddy has already expressed interest and has verbalized its more than a hookup, he wants to stay the night etc and cuddle sessions. Boyfriend just wants a fuck ready daddy.

I joined boyfriend in a threesome with a guy. I joined in a session watching him breed and pound the shit out of a hung bottom. He hooked up with this guy pre diagnosis as well. It is interesting that this bottom since their last hook up before diagnosis has also now become infected.

That is in itself a whole new blog entry but….How hot is it to watch to poz men just go at it no holds bar. more to come…

I have confessed to boyfriend I have had a few hookups on the side. One I video tapped and showed him, the other I told him about because he knew I had been with this guy before in our old apartment. The guy I had videotaped is……well I think I want to make a whole complete blog about it in detail. I want to watch the video with headphones on so I can dictate every single detail for you sluts who read this shit to get off.

As for the guy I have been with a few times. He is just some middle aged, short, bottom slut.  He walks in, gets undressed, gets on all fours ass spread and lubed up, I then enter the bedroom from the bathroom and walk up, kick his legs apart and slide my raw cock into his hole as I feed him poppers. I breed him, step away, blow my load on his hole then push it back in then kick him out.

Thats all it is, just a hole to blow in.

Now….Why do I breed? I don’t know. I just like the wet warm feeling wrapped around my shaft and feeling my seed spew all over and plaster a willing mans asshole.

With that being said I was fearful once I had contracted “it”. More so It was just a bad cold…A man cold of course…The side effect of being an anxious person who’s boyfriend has HIV its always on my mind.

If I keep this up at some point it could be inevitable that I could contract it if I keep fucking guys raw. That would make me very sad and my boyfriend angry. I mean I will breed guys who I don’t know their status but I won’t fuck him. A guy who knows his status will still breed him but I won’t.?!?!! I am sure that can add to the mental confusion to it all.

I have more luck with men on Craigslist then I do on Manhunt, Squirt and Grindr. Those sites are boring and for the masses. Everyone thinks they know someone or someone knows someone who has fucked so and so….I don’t have time for that. The men on craigslist are more intense. Discrete and it helps keep the distance.

I will admit the daddy that the boyfriend was fucking around with who almost slide his raw shaft deep into his tight eager hole was a man from Manhunt who I have always wanted to service but I am not his type. So it is nice to live vicariously through boyfriend. Watching the both of them getting what they want from the hookup. Meanwhile I am still getting what I want. I love to watch men fuck….The sounds, the smell the dim lights bouncing off the muscle, the ass….I love the smell of poppers and sweaty ass fill the room.

Here I am. sitting in the coffee shop waiting to watch my numbers climb as all you pig sluts want more. Feel free to email me, chat me or share what you want to hear from me.

 

A positive Oral Experience , now what….

It has been  281 days, 11hours, 17mins since his diagnosis. We have had many sexual encounters. Most of which are jack off sessions. Some mutual jacking off, a few deep kisses, nipple and intense ear & neck kissing with sexual whispers. I have used a toy on his ass, he has used a toy on his ass. We have had good Edging sessions as we watching TMI porn.

I have rimmed him once, I have shared few deep tongue kisses, I have even since provided some limited oral.

Within the last 2-3 weeks we had been drinking we got very horny and it resulted in me fucking him hard and deep with a condom of course. I only did it for a few minutes as I had a sense he was feeling awkward. At this moment I am a bit foggy as to how our escapade ended but I know how it started. He was feeling submissive, he asked me to climb ontop of him as he laid on his belly. It progressed from there to me eating his ass with the utmost pleasure and aggression.

There have been a few times were I have licked his cock, I have put his cock in my mouth and at times I had been anxious. It is new. It is different. It feels like I am an unsure 20yr old who is still preoccupied with contracting HIV.

This morning we had our usual cuddles. I felt his cock hard as a rock. We had some good firm hand grasps, we traded turns spooning as to feel the others cock near our asses.

I asked him on a scale of 1-10. 10 being He was ready to blow to 1 being he wanted to cry. He replied that he was an 8! Ready Set Go…

I fingered him a little bit. I could tell….I rolled him on his belly and got on top, I dry humped him to see how receptive he was. I was so close to grab a condom and just fuck him silly. I tongue fucked him a couple times.  I then rolled him over and climbed up on his chest and told him what to do. He was a good boy. He stuck out his tongue and I slapped my cock against his face, I forced his mouth open and plunged my cock down his throat a few times, he sucked it a bit more then I laid down beside him. He then got up on all fours and sucked me off. I fingered his ass a bit as he serviced my cock. It felt so good. It had been forever since I had a mouth on my shaft. I was a bit anxious for contraction. Jesus some ignorant HIV positive men like Danny Pintauro-Tabares said he contracted it from oral. It seems so unlikely to contract it that way. Possible but less common.

I had other HIV positive guys suck me off b4 and never thought twice about it. I have had sucked off a few too I am sure and never even knew about it.

This was different. I wanted it. He wanted it. I felt like he needed it more than me to feel whole again. To release his inner cocksucker. To feed him his first seed in over 10months.

It was an amazing blowjob. I then took over and jacked off as his lips were mere centimetres away. Once I started to shoot he went down on me and ate up as much as he could. I felt so food that I was able to give him his first seed in 10months. Hoping that it would inspire him to want more, ask for more, take his first hung daddy cock that he has been fantasizing for weeks now.

It was now his turn to blow. He was on his knees jacking away, spitting on his cock and ferriously tugging away at it wanting to provide me with a load all over myself and again providing him sense of normalcy.

Alas he was unable to blow a load, his anxieties got the best of him and he collapsed beside me and we cuddled. Providing him with some comfort that it was fine. I have had those moments too so it was no big deal.

Was it weird, absolutely. Was it awkward, absolutely. Was it awesome, yes. Do I want it to happen again, sure. Does it feel unsafe and risky, a little bit.

I trust that his blood work is still undetectable. But here we are. It is done….

 

Words & Numbers = No Answers

190Days

16 Hours

0Minutes

20Seconds

SINCE WE FOUND OUT….

 

I feel much better now that I had.

He is lucky that the triumeq has been kind to his body.

He has had no visible, mental or other side effects.

Well none that we can tell.  He has been on the pills since October 8th 6am.

83 DAYS….

He has had some tiny pimple like issues around his mouth area, upper lip, not pimples but blister red blemish like. They come and go. He has periods of this.  This has happened since diagnosis but has only had a couple outbreaks since his pills. Unsure if it is related or just “who he is”

His only side effect is within 60mins of taking the pill which are cured with diet, he eats and they go away. I am happy and relieved that is all of the issues he has had.  As for bowel issues. He has always had issues so knowing if it is because of the pills or not is sort of irrelevant. He has always had bouts with his shit…He farts more. His shit stinks more…BUT who knows…

He has a rash the size of a Canadian One Dollar Coin on his left upper leg. It has grown.

Other than that……just the mental anguish he goes through in phases.

My side effects are  perpetual worry. Over the holidays I was sad a bit but happy. Full of love but also very aware of what has transpired over the last 7months.  December was full of Dr’s appointments.

We were eating supper last night and I was obviously getting emotional. He asked me why I was looking sad.  I opened up and was honest with him and said it was because of HIV thoughts. It would be a disservice to him and me if I just kept it inside and not be truthful why I was sad. I had been thinking of his diagnosis…That was the truth. HE smiled and said thank you and we continued with our night of movies and laughs.

 

 

 

bathhouse breeding in a serodiscordant relationship

A few weeks ago  I went to the local bathhouse. It was a weeknight that my partner was working the night shift and I was unaware of how to be alone with myself.

I knew my bud with the foot fetish was working the counter at the bathhouse so I was hopping I would either get in for free, get a free bottle of poppers or….I am not into him but he seems to be into me so I play with it…..

I was there for a few hours. It was nothing to talk about. Same ole same ole.

I posted on squirt.org that I thought it would be busy and men started to come out of the woodwork. A few regulars I have seen before with huge cocks, a bottom then HE walked in.

I had not seen him over a year. He dropped a shit load of weight.

He is a trucker, a bit of pudge, average 7inch cock with horse balls. He probably was 5’11 ad 220 but stocky fit before. He was probably now 175….

Hot as ever but damn…so it was him, my hung friend who is probably pecan thick cock and 9inches uncut..older BB buddy and another oral expert. The three of us in the basement in the dark room. The trucker was servicing all three of us. He was cum hungry. Sucking all three of us equally. I whispered in the hung tops ear to get behind the bottom. He got on his knees and started to work the truckers hole….

He slipped his hung cock into his hole as the trucker continued to suck me off…I stepped aside to let the other dude get his bj then went behind the top to feel his raw cock breed this horny cumslut trucker take it.

I love feeling raw cock in a dudes hole…wish there was more light…..I could feel the tops cock explode in the truckers hole. I felt the shaft pulse..and pulse as my hand cradled his balls and shaft.

I am rock hard just writing this.

The top withdrew his cock and you could hear the slurp plop of his cock coming out. I walked up on my knees to get behind the trucker… I grabbed my cock and positioned it around his warm eager hole, slid it in and I could feel the tops load. Slathering my cock I started to pump his hole. Frothing up his load around his hole, cum dripping out around the sides of my cock as I breed for the first time in months.

The guilt and excitement of breeding for the firs time in months made me dump my load almost instantly. I thrusted every drop in his hole as my hands massaged his ass and waist. I love breeding doggy style. I felt a sense of guilt and “what if” the trucker was poz.

He has a girlfriend. He does go to the bathhouse, he probably picks up on the road. I know he breeds with the oral guy I mentioned earlier. Maybe he doesn’t know. How could he drop that weight.  Distortions started to freak me out and make me forget what I had just done. I loved it but hated it.

I haven’t stopped thinking of it since…..Who doesn’t love a fit, hung big balled cum slut bottom? Tats and a trucker at that! Sort of fits the bill for a gay man’s fantasy.

The boyfriend and I had been with him a handful of times before.

So why was this time any different. Who knows….But I want to do it again.

Fuck I love breeding….

Feels slightly disrespectful to boyfriend who is now living with HIV but….

I have needs….torn….

UNDETECTABLE, almost…

What is a number. They say age is just a number. HIV status is just a number.  Time is just a series of numbers. Bank accounts are just numbers.

What is ONE.

What is undetectable…..

Close but no cigar?

SO….Here are some numbers for you….

June-  Boyfriend had a extremely High Viral Load. 1,000,000’s. That was within just a month of infection.

July’ish- 700,000 parts per millilitre

September 500,000 parts per millilitre

October 400,000 parts per millilitre

October 8th 2015, 6am- FIRST Pill of Triumeq

December 10th 2015- 21 parts per millilitre

UNDETECTABLE IS 20PPM OR LESS!!

SO…JUST SHY OF UNDETECTABLE…THAT IS REMARKABLY GOOD NEWS!

A lot of anxiety was leading up to that number.

Would the pills work? Was taking them at 6am worth it? Was eating better and reduction of alcohol worth it? Was going to bed worth it?

Now we have our answer. It was such a surreal moment.

Lots of tears.

We have become a little complacent. We started to live our lives.

We found a new place to live(move in date March2016), I got a new job, GrandMother died, Had a tiny small emotionally charged spat*first time since May2015 we had any sort of fight.(granted it was the day after grandmothers funeral).  Boyfriend started to see an ENT. Got him hooked up to a CPAP machine. It took 7months to get a psychologist to see him, He just had his first appointment just before Christmas. He has seen a Naturopath Dr 2x.

Now what??

 

TIMELINES

So much time has gone by since my last post.

I truly have no excuse other than a lack of commitment and structure to my life.

In October I applied for a job, got the job, 3weeks of intense training off site then thrown into the position sink or swim style. I am loving it!

I was fortunate enough that my partner stepped up to the plate and helped me deal with life’s daily routine. I am grateful. He wrote me little love notes every morning.  He made sure laundry was done.  He not only made supper nightly but also did the dishes as I absolved myself from all household chores to only fall into the abyss of self reflection of the days training and mentally shutting down.

He loved me. He cuddled me. He made sure I wanted or needed for anything. It helped me achieve my goals.  I had not worked since April. And before that I had only worked for 6months.

It was my time. I knew I had to get off my rocker and get out in life. I not only had to live my motto of be strong to be strong for him later. It involved me becoming a whole person.

I was not working. I was only bringing in $790 bucks a month from disability. Whereas he has HIV and is working. Worked through his seroconversion, his pills, the mental anguish, YET here I sit unable to get out in the world and contribute.

I wanted to work. I just had no idea what I was capable of. I felt a wave of positivity from my partners journey. I knew I could do it. An opportunity arose and I grabbed it and did my best.

I have been working full time since December 4th.

Daily I knew I wanted to write in my blog for you fellow readers but was so caught up in my new chapter I was unable to get ahold of what was happening let alone able to put it into words.

I generally prefer not to write at home. I like going to a coffee shop and being out in the world to allow influences and life inspire me to write. So here I sit. January 2nd 2016. A new year….

The next couple of months should be busy for me but I hope to achieve some sense of normalcy now that I have a months schedule I can pencil in some blogging time.

Much has happened for my partner and I’s path of positivity that I have been bursting at the seams to share. Now I have an opportunity.

Happy New Year!

Fucking and Sucking at the Bathhouse

I could not take it anymore. I went to the local bathhouse on Sunday.  I know a guy who works there so I was hoping to get in there for free. That was not the case. He also told me on my way over to bring a book. I guess it has been slow there recently. It seems to be that when it is busy one night of the weekend the next couple days are slow and not so busy at all. I had to go.  had to take my chances and have some fun. I was craving some man cock and just to feel it in my hand.

I went. I paid my dues and went to my room. Only one other man was there. It was awkward for a bit. Not knowing how I wanted to conduct myself in the realms of fucking and sucking.

I walked around. Put my towel on and enjoyed the porn playing on the tvs throughout the bathhouse. It as ok. A few other men appeared and we played the game. We all took turns following each other.

Here is the attendance. Myself. A early 50s fit wish man with a big chest tattoo and a hung cock.  A middle aged man, slim and trim, shy and fussy. An older slim trim man, white hair and a white beard. A slim trim late 40s man*who i have played with before. A 30s shortish cub with a hairy chest and beard. Plus 2 other middle aged men.

I had the pleasure of sampling the older man with the tattoo. I was unaware at the time who’s cock was in the dark glory hole but it was awesome. He was hung, juicy and how a mans cock should feel in your mouth.  I was cock hungry, I also had the older white haired man in my mouth.  All the men were hung that day.  I also had the pleasure of feasting on the regular guy I had met before.  At one point the white hair hung man and my regular and I all played in the glory hole. It was great. I was so horny and the feeling of having two hung fat cocks in each hand as I sucked was great.

I will admit 2 days later I have some guilt. I feel….I feel like Christ…I could have gotten HIV, I could have gotten any other STD.  sighs…Time will tell.

I know the tattoo man had cum near my mouth and I had a small taste. I also could taste pre-cum from my regular. I also know my regular plays a lot and he self admitted to me in the past he had “curable” STDS..thank god for antibiotics.

So here I sit in the coffee shop…Do I have an STD.  Unlikely HIV but it’s still a risk. I mean,” what if the man who gave it to my partner has not been contacted or knows he has it and is out there spreading it still!!!”

sighs…This is what nearly turns me off from SEX.

Poppered Out: an Ode to the Good Ole Days….

Am I too old for this shit?

This is a common mental  note I make after I spend some time jacking off when I use poppers as an enhancement to my edging sessions.

I have been using Poppers since I was 21. I had accidentally came across this phenomenon of gay culture. I remember visiting a gay bar for a Halloween event and I was dancing away and I noticed many gay boys dancing it up with lighters to their nose. I never thought much of it. Curious but not tempted. I remember a boy asking me if I wanted a huff. I declined after asking him what it was.

It was on my mind for several months. After leaving the big city back to where I was living I was laying in bed with my boyfriend at the time. We were talking about it. I told him the local sex shop was selling this liquid called Poppers and I wanted to try it. We agreed to try it. He went to shower and I ran to the local porn shop to buy a bottle of this heavenly substance.

I got back to the apartment and I ran into the bedroom to start our little sex party for two. It was amazing. We inhaled this euphoric liquid like it was our existence. We had a great time fucking.

Needless to say 20 years later I am still using it. I have always wanted it apart of my sex life. It was many years later that I started to hear rumblings on how it is not good for you.

20 years later I am now finding myself more cautious of its use. I love it. I love the feeling, I love the habit of edging my cock and raising my hand to my nose and taking a big huff filling my lungs with the breath of ecstasy. It filled my body with a throb, a high that intensified my orgasm. I would edge myself to the point of passing out sometimes.

I remember a time in my youth(about 9years ago) that I was severely depressed. I was unemployed. I was smoking pot. I was drinking. I was addicted to porn. My current boyfriend and I had a cozy 2 bedroom apartment. I would use the spare bedroom as my lair. It was my sex dungeon. I created a bad habit. I would stay up late, well past my boyfriends bedtime. I had it down to a science. I would watch 2 sitcoms smoking pot, maybe 4 joints would get me high. After the sitcoms ended, I would sit back in my bachelors chair, grab a drink, and put porn on the DVD player.  I had these DVDs that would play for 8hrs. It was heaven.  I would edge, toking in one hand and poppers in the other. I would edge for 1-2hours, working my cock with pot and poppers. Added to the fact that I would be hot boxing my room and my cock was restrained in a cock-ring I would have the most intense orgasm and shoot loads. It was a contest with myself to see how far I could shoot. At times I would jerk off and cum right away only to toke and stroke to porn until I was ready to blow a second time.

I would remember after blowing my loads and my head rolling back,  my eyes were shut and seeing colours and my body filling with this body chill. I would slowly freak out wondering what was happening to my body. It was the most intense body stone I would have. Even back then I felt like I was on the edge of something dangerous.  I then went to bed at 3am and slept in. I lived for bating my cock.

I did this for months. Then one fatal night, early in the night I had this most intense cough. It hurt. It felt like my lungs had separated from its connective tissue from my ribs and I blew a gasket. It hurt. The very next day I developed this huge thump in my chest and I gave up smoking pot. Just like that cold turkey.

My days of edging and putting myself in a frenzy were over.

Recently the Canadian Gov’t decided that the importation and sale of Poppers was illegal. Poppers soon became a high commodity in the gay black market. Everyone was out. No one could find any. Then out of the blue people started to sell them over craigslist, bars and some bathhouses would start to sell them under the table. The price doubled even tripled.  I would admit I too would buy them for an outrageous price.

Why not?

I love to jack my cock and fuck while sniffing poppers.

There was a time though that I knew better and tried to go off them when it was too difficult to find them. In my sex drawer where I store my condoms, lube, toys etc I have probably 12 or more used old bottles.

I have also suffered the consequences of poppers. I would sometimes get that rash, that skin burn under my nostrils, mostly one side than the other.  Certain Brands would contribute to it more than others and then sometimes it was just the age of the poppers that would contribute to my nose being burnt. A chemical burn to say the least. I would go through times in my life being questioned by coworkers what was wrong with my nose, family members would ask. I would always reply with it was a cold, I got burnt by steam from a facial steamer, etc. Whatever would take the attention away from me using poppers. It was hard but it always worked. My worst fear was that people would assume I sniffed the white stuff. I never did!! for the record.

I learned that sometimes I would chase the rush. I wanted to be fully poppered up when I blew my load which would lead to my head rush and my body feeling completely useless and unable to move after I bated for so long. This told me I was getting too old for this shit.

Why do I do it….Habit, addiction??

I know men who are older and have been doing it longer. Was it a bad thing? Will I succumb to some sort of cancer because of it? Will I die because of my bad habit? Does Health Canada know something they aren’t telling us ? Why are countries around the world finally after 4 or more decades now banning poppers?  Can I survive without them?  Can I relearn how to have enjoyable sex without them?

Who doesn’t love a good hit of the little brown inconspicuous bottle when your about to take 8 or more inches of raw cock?!! I do…Fuck, I am so tight, I rarely take it but when you meet that one guy who you just can’t resist but to try, they sure come in handy then.

I have met many people over the years who are against them, I have met some men who consider them a drug just as pot or coke are. That I do not understand. I have at one point in my life freely used them in the club dancing as well. They were making a comeback, I remember educating my straight friends to try them. It was all the rage once.

There is something to be said to walking into a room, a bathhouse, or a sex party and the first thing that hits your nose is the stench of raw poppers filling your body before you even see any skin….